Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old
The prompt
“What's a joke you've been dying to tell me? Let's hear it right now.”
What to listen for
Whether the joke lands perfectly or falls flat, their eagerness to share it shows they want your attention and delight. Give a big, genuine reaction either way.
If they can't remember one, ask them to make one up on the spot, the process is more important than a polished punchline.
A giggly, silly delivery is a great sign they feel safe being goofy and seeking your laughter.
What this tells you
Wanting to make you laugh shows you how much they want to feel like they can light you up and be truly seen by you.