Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old
The prompt
“What was the cuddliest, coziest moment of your whole week?”
What to listen for
If they name a specific hug or snuggle moment with detail, that shows physical closeness is a real, active source of comfort for them right now.
If they mention wanting more of that kind of moment, take it as a genuine request, not neediness, closeness like that is fuel, not extra.
If they say they can't think of one, that's useful information too, it might mean it's a good week to build a cozy moment in on purpose.
What this tells you
Their cuddliest moment shows how much closeness currently anchors their sense of feeling safe and loved.