Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old
The prompt
“What does it look like when siblings disagree but are still being respectful about it?”
What to listen for
If they describe calm voices or listening to each other, that clear picture shows they understand disagreement doesn't have to mean disrespect, which is a big, mature idea.
If they contrast it with a time it went badly, that comparison helps them see the difference clearly without you having to spell it out.
If they say siblings can't disagree respectfully, gently ask what one small change might make their next disagreement go better.
What this tells you
Their picture of respectful disagreement shows how much they value keeping the relationship intact even when they don't agree.