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Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old

The prompt

“If you walked through the zoo, which animal would you say is most like you, and what's the one thing you two have in common?”

What to listen for

If they pick something bold or fast, like a cheetah or lion, they might be identifying with feeling strong, quick, or in charge, a sign they like feeling capable and confident.

If they pick something gentle, curious, or a little quirky, like an otter or a sloth, that could be them embracing a softer or more laid-back side of themselves that feels true and comfortable.

If they say "I don't know," ask what animal a friend would pick for them, sometimes imagining another's view unlocks self-reflection.

What this tells you

The animal and trait they choose is a small window into how they currently see their own personality.

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