Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old
The prompt
“Is there something you want to get braver about, even just a little bit?”
What to listen for
A specific answer (the dark, a new class, diving in the pool) shows real self-awareness about their own edges. Ask what the smallest possible brave step might look like.
If they say 'nothing,' they might already feel confident, or the question might feel too big, you can offer something you've noticed they hesitate on.
Whatever they name, avoid promising to 'fix' it tonight; just knowing it matters to them is the win.
What this tells you
This tells you exactly where they're standing at the edge of their comfort zone and ready to grow, with your support.