Tonight with your 5 to 8 year old
The prompt
“What's something you're really good at that you think might actually surprise people?”
What to listen for
A confident answer shows healthy pride in a skill that isn't always in the spotlight. Ask how they discovered they were good at it.
If they're shy about naming one, offer something you've noticed that might surprise others, and see if they agree.
If they name something unexpected or unusual, celebrate that it doesn't have to be a 'typical' talent to count.
What this tells you
This reveals a hidden strength they're carrying that might need more recognition from the people around them.