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Tonight with your 9 to 12 year old

The prompt

“Is there a meal that just makes home feel like home to you?”

What to listen for

A quick, warm answer shows food is tied to real comfort and belonging for them, that meal is likely doing more emotional work than just being dinner.

If the meal connects to a specific memory or person, that's worth exploring further, the food itself might matter less than who's usually there when it's served.

If nothing comes to mind right away, that's a nice invitation to start building that tradition together rather than a gap to worry about.

What this tells you

This shows you what your child associates with the comfort and safety of home.

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